The Hardy Boys GC

[themightybosstone]

The Boss changed the title from #general to #the-hardy-bois

Comments

Re: day 213 afternoon

[custodire]

May I ask what the problem is?

Re: day 213 afternoon

[vapour]

I did the wrong thing with someone, and now I want to apologize and clear things up but also I don't wanna see them for a while.

Re: day 213 afternoon

[custodire]

Are you good at making anything? Art? Food? Writing?

Re: day 213 afternoon

[vapour]

the latter two, I guess. Or I hope.

Re: day 213 afternoon

[custodire]

Then make something and maybe write a note and leave it where they can find it.

If you're afraid of them seeing you, I can even do it. I have a blessing that lets me know where people are, it wouldn't be a problem.

Re: day 213 afternoon

[vapour]

I'm worried I'll scare them off if that makes sense. Like I don't want to be too pushy even with an apology.

Re: day 213 afternoon

[custodire]

Not doing anything might do the opposite.

You can always say in the note you want them to take their time and you won't seek them out until they do, but address that you feel apologetic.

Thinking about it too much will do nothing for you or them... but that's just my opinion.

Re: day 213 afternoon

[vapour]

[ will take a bit to reply but when he does: ]

damn you for making sense

Re: day 213 afternoon

[custodire]

I would like to think I always make sense.

Re: day 213 afternoon

[vapour]

ugh
no no you don't get it
now I have to be an adult
and think about someone other than myself

it's like talking to Jun but cuter

Re: day 213 afternoon

[custodire]

[ ignoring the jun comment wow she's her own person??? ]

If you care about them you should already be trying to think about them as much as yourself.

I'm not trying to lecture you or judge you, just - Turning to recklessness will hurt more than just yourself. If it's solveable another way we should try it.

[ "WE" because she cares ]

1/2

[vapour]

[ holy shit
stop caring
it burns ]

Re: day 213 afternoon

[vapour]

You're right. I need to work on this.

Re: day 213 afternoon

[custodire]

Just take care of yourself.

If punching something helps do it.

But don't just think about jumping off sides of ships without having at least backup.